To make yourself happy is the best way to live.
Life is in a hurry, but a hundred years.
No matter how far the road is, it will be done in a twinkling of an eye; no matter how difficult it is, it will become smoke and smoke in the twinkling of an eye.
with the passage of time, you will find that there are regrets no matter what.
therefore, making your life comfortable is more important than anything else!
as Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"you just do what you like to do and live the life you like. If someone feels sick and makes fun of you because of what you like to do, that's their business."
in this life, instead of trying to please others, it is better to please yourself.
make yourself happy is the best way to live!
you don't have to please everyone
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in this world, there is a kind of people who live the most tiring life.
always meet all other people's demands unconditionally and never refuse;
often think twice before doing things, giving priority to other people's ideas;
for fear of conflict with others, I never express my true feelings.
such people are called "flattering personality" in psychology.
they have only one principle in dealing with others, that is, "sacrifice themselves to fulfill others".
as Xi Murong said:
"when I look back, I suddenly realize that all my efforts in my life are only to make the people around me satisfied with me."
in order to win the approval and smile of others, I trembled into all the patterns, all the shackles.
in the middle of the journey, I suddenly realized that I had only a vague face and a road that could not turn back. "
but the truth is, the more flattering you are, the easier it is not to be cherished.
over time, people will take everything you do for granted, you do well, they feel at ease, you do not do well, they complain.
I can't help thinking of Zheng Wei in "to our lost Youth". After four years of college, she loved the sensitive and self-respecting Chen Xiaozheng wholeheartedly, and Zheng Wei followed him wherever he went.
however, the crazy pay did not get the truth, but Chen Xiaozheng trampled on it at will.
so rather than please others, please yourself.
Bi Shumin once said, "our lives do not exist to please others."
Don't belittle your existence just because others don't like it.
Don't treat yourself at will to take care of the feelings of others;
Don't care too much about the opinions of others. Living for yourself is the right life.
No matter meet or part, do not please, do not make do with it, the day can be more gorgeous.
people who please others, those who please themselves are king
how many people in the world live in the expectations and eyes of others.
if you don't get approval, you get depressed; if you don't get approval, you belittle yourself.
so in order to cater to others, constantly wronged themselves and accommodated each other.
gradually, I lost my heart and gave up my dignity.
learn to slow down and love yourself. Only if you please yourself can you please others.
as the goddess Chanel said:
"I was never a heroine, but I chose what I wanted to be, and now I am what I want to be."
Please learn to make yourself happy for the rest of your life.
only by shaking off the tiredness and helplessness of yesterday and caressing away the pain and tears of yesterday can we meet the brand-new rising sun of tomorrow and achieve a better tomorrow.
making yourself happy is the best way to live
in this world, really smart people are trying to please themselves, and only fools please others.
because no matter friendship or love, we meet each other not to please each other, but to be with ta, we will be happy with each other.
as Ma Jiahui shared in the "round table school".
he is a novelist, and there is no room for distractions when he writes at home, so he often lives apart from his wife.
the wife does not complain about this.
when she is alone, she arranges her life richly and colorful every day, and even provides inspiration for Ma Jiahui from time to time.
so he sighed:
"I support my wife financially, and my wife nourishes me spiritually.
both Ma Jiahui and his wife are the ones who choose to make themselves comfortable first. It is precisely because I have made myself comfortable that I have the ability and energy to make the people around me happy.
so learn to make yourself happy.
take care of your emotions as you take care of others;
listen to your own voice as you follow others;
respect your own ideas as you please others.
then you will find that life is so clear, and love is even more simple.
Life is not a breeze in full bloom, but, whether the breeze comes or not, I am in full bloom for myself.
in this way, it is the best attitude in life.
, may you learn for the rest of your lifePlease yourself, be happy every day, and everything goes well.